October 8, 2012 Letter

Hello Family and Friends!

 

Well, its official, Im being transferred.....I will be leaving Highland Home early Wednesday Morning. :/ I've been blessed by this opportunity to serve here for twelve weeks and be trained here! I won't know where I'll be going until the transfer meeting on Wednesday. President's really good with putting the Transfer powerpoint on the blog so you may find out on that before I'm able to contact you.

 

Elder Kaupert has been an awesome trainer! He will be staying here in Highland Home and training an incoming missionary. We made some pumpkin pies today as a last hurrah :) He still has 15 months left, so odds are we'll be in the same zone or maybe district in the future. He's been here in Highland for 6 months now.

 

I really am grateful for this opportunity I have had to serve in the Highland Home/Greenville areas and the Montgomery Stake. I kinda hope I stay in the zone, cause Elder Walker of the Seventy is coming this weekend to reorganize the Montgomery Stake Presidency, and I love being there when General Authorities come, but I'll be happy to go wherever I'm called!

 

Conference was really good! I was really excited about the message about missionary work! I bet a lot of girls my age are accelerating their plans to leave on missions now. It really excited me, I was giddy the whole day - it's such a historic announcement! We were able to have some good conference watching experiences! We spent both days in the Highland Home/Sardis area and made sure conference was going at the church. We help set up conference in Korean for the Kim family to watch over the internet. We watched the Saturday Morning session at the church. We ate lunch there and saw the press conference about missionary work with Elders Nelson, Holland and Evans which was really good. We watched the afternoon session with Cubert and Becky in their home. We had been praying for that session to be what they needed to hear, and the messages about families were perfect for them! Priesthood meeting was really good. Funny enough only Elder Kaupert, Brother Gillion (the branch clerk) and me were there to see it, which surprised me because this was an off week for Alabama football, so I thought there'd be more people there.

 

Sunday Morning Session we watched with Larry (branch mission leader) and Brenda with our investigator. She came to church a little bit a few years ago, but stopped coming when some friends told her some things that really scared her about the church. Elder Kaupert and I have been teaching her for about 6 weeks now, and she was pretty impressed by what she heard. (go President Eyring and Elder Holland....exactly what she needed to hear!) We had to leave to go watch the afternoon session at someone else's home, but she enjoyed the session so much that she stayed and watched the afternoon session with Larry and Brenda! It was a great conference for the work here in Highland Home.

 

Well, some sad news. Saturday night one of the McGough's cats (Castillo) was attacked by their dogs (Tip, Spike, Emma and Rusty). We thought Castillo was dead, but luckily he survived. He's at the vet right now, keep him in your prayers.

 

Well, I guess that even on an LDS mission I can't get away from the fact that I'm a musician. I am playing piano at the transfer meeting and am doing a violin musical number.

 

It'll be sad to leave our investigators, but I know that there will be new people to meet and to teach in the place i'll end up!

 

Well, with everything that has happened in the last few days, I don't really remember anything else to report, how sad is that! Love you all! Hope to hear from you!

Love

Elder Madsen

 

October 1, 2012 Letter

Hello Family and Friends!

 

We've had a great week! The weather is continuing to stay mild, usually in the low to mid-80s. I enjoy the work we are doing here so much! We have 2 new investigators now who we are really excited about. We taught them first lessons in the last week.

 

Greenville Branch, as we said before, is getting new missionaries next transfer. The exciting part is they are actually getting two sets of missionaries! They will have a set of elders and a senior couple. [The story of why they're getting two is quite miraculous, I'll tell y'all about it in a letter.] We expect, and are excited for, real growth in the area of Greenville in the coming months. For the first time in about a month, we were able to go out and spend Saturday and Sunday in Greenville, spending the night in the church building. The branch is small in numbers but definitely not small in spirit. We had a short but really powerful fast and testimony meeting yesterday.

 

This week I have been thinking about the importance of members with missionary work. I know y'all probably hear this a lot, but members are such a valuable part of the missionary process! This woman we've been teaching works with a member in the Highland Home Branch and that member was so helpful in our teaching of the first lesson with her. The best investigators come from member referrals and having members in lessons is so powerful. I would invite everyone who reads this letter to pray every day for more missionary opportunities. I know that as we do this, and as we become more willing to be instruments in the Lord's hands, that we can bring so many souls to Christ.

 

Cubert and Becky have been doing so well! As I have said, they've really adjusted to member life. When we were teaching them the word of wisdom, the lesson was long (probably 1 1/2 hrs) and the spirit was there. At the end, they committed to keep the Word of Wisdom, and they have held true to that since then, not slipping once! And (just as exciting) they paid their tithing for the first time yesterday!

 

Another plug-in for member missionary work - I firmly believe that the support Cubert and Becky received from branch members here in Highland was vital to them feeling comfortable with their decision to be baptized, and that that same support helped them so much after they were baptized as they familiarized (and are still familiarizing) themselves with the "Mormon Culture". We [members] are more different than we sometimes think we are, and new members need a friend to help them learn. Be that friend.

 

Just as important as that, I think its so important for active members of the church to reach out to those who are less active. Oftentimes (though not all the time) those who are coming less feel because they are afraid they aren't wanted. Let them know they are wanted, and be their friend regardless if they are coming to church are not.

 

Well, back to my life. Some of y'all have asked how often we eat with members. We eat with members really inconsistently. There have been weeks that we have eaten 5 or 6 times with members, and weeks where we haven't eaten at all. The mission has discouraged wards and branches to have "feed the missionary" signups, so we eat with members when they come up to us and ask to feed us. The food, all in all, is very similar to what we have back home, with the exception of the okra, collards, turnip greens and butterbeans. Okra is the best, I could eat some every day! Of course, I've only ever had it fried, and I hear boiled or pickled okra isn't as appetizing. I've not had chittlins yet, and I hope I'll never have to. I'm sort of indifferent with the hush puppies and fried cornbread.

 

Conference is coming!! We are excited! We are planning on watching the sessions of conference with different less-active members, and we are excited for the influence conference will have. President Holzapfel in a letter challenged us missionaries to have a question that we need answered going into conference. I invite everyone to do so - Conference has a unique power to speak to the soul.

 

Well, love you all. Thanks for your letters, love and prayers! God be with you!

 

Love

 

Elder Coleman Madsen

Sept 24, 2012 Letter

Hello Family and Friends!

 

We've had a good week in Highland Home! The weather is getting cooler (finally!) as we move into fall weather. We haven't had a day above the mid-80s in over a week now. The nights it has gotten down to the lower 50s, upper 40s.

 

I talked about Cubert and Becky's baptism last letter. I can't overemphasize how amazing of an experience it was for everybody involved. We had a lot of people there, and everyone said it was the best (most spiritual) baptism they had ever been to.

 

Biggest news is that they are splitting our area. Starting next transfer (2 weeks) Greenville/Butler County will have its own set of missionaries. This will be a great blessing for the members in the Greenville Area. Greenville hasn't had a convert baptism in recent history. By putting full-time missionaries there specifically hopefully that will open the doors for the gospel to start growing in that area. Funny enough Mom, I found this out from you in your letter I got Wednesday night because President put it on the blog. We called President N---- and confirmed what you had said Thursday Morning, and Friday President Holzapfel told us about it when we were in Birmingham. We haven't been in Greenville for about two weeks because of Cubert and Becky's baptism and other things that have come up in Highland, but this week we plan to get back over there.

 

Friday we had our temple trip. Our session was from 1 to 3, so with the 2-1/2 hour drive, plus the fact that we picked up a set of Montgomery elders, it was a day-long extravaganza. The Birmingham temple is one of those temples that doesn't really look that pretty unless you see it in real life, the pictures don't really do it justice. It was a great spiritual experience for me! Its a blessing to have a temple in our mission boundaries. Because the Provo Temple was closed for cleaning when I was in the MTC, its great to finally be able attend the temple while serving as a missionary!

 

Saturday I had a, well, unique experience. We were able to help Brother S---- and his wife load their square hay bales. I think its funny (and they think its funny) that I come from such a rural state yet I've never done something like that before. The funnest part was when Grandma S---- (who was driving the tractor) lost control of the vehicle going down a hill andalmost flipped us over. Didn't get hurt or anything, we weren't going fast enough for that.  Sure had fun though.

 

Yesterday (Sunday) we had our "Homecoming" in Highland Home. The branch invited former branch members back for a special, two-hour long sacrament meeting. All of the still-living former branch presidents and bishops spoke. We had some in-actives who have not been to church for a LONG time there that day. We had 121 people there at the meeting, and that was with a few people out of town and some of the "less active" families not there. It was a record number of people. We filled the whole room and the 4 overflow classrooms, and we had some people outside listening in the hallways. The meeting was perfect length (I thought) - none of the branch presidents spoke for more than 15 minutes. For a lot of the branch members it was a real spiritual experience - a lot of tears were shed. My eyes were watering a little bit.

 

Afterwords we had food - more food than you have ever seen in your life! I don't know how the Relief Society does it. There were probably 8 tables with plates and plates of food on them. We probably could have fed 250 people.

 

Elder and Sister Callister (senior missionary couple) came to the homecoming, and they did some teacher training with us after the activity. Something I guess I haven't really ever talked about in my letters, but that is so true, is the impact senior missionaries have on the missions they serve. I've had the opportunity to get to know Elder and Sister Blau and Elder and Sister Callister so well these past few transfers and have learned a lot for them. Every couple in the church should aim towards serving a mission, there are so many opportunities to serve

 

Not much else to report. We have a new investigator that we are going to start teaching this week in Luverne that "found" us through a member and wants to take the discussions. She was at church on Sunday. We are excited to be able to teach her the next few weeks.

 

Love you all!

 

Elder Coleman Madsen

 

September 17, 2012 Letter

Coleman and his companion at the temple (photo from mission pres blog)

Hello Family and Friends!!

 

A lot to report on this last week!

 

We went on an exchange with Elders Clanton and Dunn again this last week. I was with Elder Dunn again, this time in Montgomery. We had a two-day exchange, so I spent Tuesday and Wednesday night there. Wednesday during our lunch hour I was able to see the Martin Luther King Jr. home and take a tour of it. It was a neat, almost spiritual experience for me to see. The marks are still there from where the bomb exploded. A lot of cool history happened in Montgomery.

 

We had some really good teaching experiences while I was in Montgomery. Tuesday night we had dinner with a man they had met on the street with his family. It turned into a good lesson on our beliefs, and we were able to resolve a lot of their concerns about the church. When you are on exchanges and are in a different area its always a bittersweet experience having good lessons, because you really enjoy them but at the same time you know that you wont be able to teach these people. While we were there we spent a lot of time contacting former investigators. Wednesday night we were able to go on splits with the ward mission leader and teach some of the less active members in the ward. I enjoyed the experiences I had there. While Elders Clanton and Kaupert were in Highland Home Elder Clanton interviewed Cubert and Becky for baptism.

 

Friday we had the funeral for Chic, the less-active man who died last Sunday. I won't say it was a fun experience, because funerals never really are, but it was good to see the community there to support the family. A lot of the people in the branch were really supportive. Two ladies spent over 30 hours each this week helping the family prepare for the funeral. A brother-in-law who lives in Clanton (out of our area) who is an active member of the church "preached" at the funeral, and dedicated the grave. It was comforting that even though a lot of the family has distanced themselves from the church recently, they still had a Melchizedek Priesthood holder conduct the funeral. Events like this, sad as they are, sometimes open the door for us as missionaries to reach out to those who have experienced loss of a loved one. Hopefully this experience will open those doors.

 

Friday afternoon Elder Jensen (Elder Kaupert's previous companion) and his companion Elder Zundel came from Hamilton and spent the night with us. Although they didn't teach them the missionary lessons, Elder Kaupert and Elder Jensen did a lot of service for Cubert and Becky before I came, and they wanted him to be able to share the special day with them.

 

Saturday was the baptism. It was the most spiritual baptism I have ever been to, and everyone else involved said the same thing. A lot of Cubert and Becky's children and their families(who are less actives) came. President and Sister Holzapfel showed up, which was just as much a suprise to us as it was to everyone else. Cubert really enjoyed when President Holzapfel spoke to the branch on Pioneer day, that first Sunday I was here, so he was really happy to see him again. Elder and Sister Callister, the senior missionary couple who came with us to a teaching appointment with Cubert and Becky a month-and-a-half ago, came as well. Everyone was crying. Jerry, Cubert's nephew and the High Priest's group leader in the branch, conducted and gave a talk at the baptism. Elder Kaupert also gave a talk, and I accompanied the hymns and played the interlude music (Highland Home is short on pianists). Everyone involved was spiritually fed. President took pictures which should be on the blog soon. [I have one picture from the event but I think the one he has is better.]

 

Sunday we were able to confirm them members of the church (I confirmed Becky). Its hard to describe how amazing of an experience this was for me. Suffice it to say I wouldn't be anywhere else in the world right now than Highland Home. I have some more information on the baptism which I will send in a different letter.

 

Well, a lot to report on, and little time to do it in. This is just a brief summary of some of the good experiences we had this week, it would take me hours and hours to adequately describe them.

 

Love and Miss yall!

 

Baptism

On the property where he lives

More property shots

Storms 

September 10, 2012 Letter

Hello Family and Friends!

 

It's been a good week this week! We are moving closer and closer to Cubert and Becky's baptism, it's this Saturday!

 

I'll start out by answering a question that a few people have asked me in their letters. As you all know, Elder Kaupert and I actually cover two different areas, the Highland Home Branch (which is Crenshaw County) and the Greenville Branch (Butler County). Some of y'all've asked the ethnicity of the people I'm teaching (if I'm teaching black people or white people). In the Highland Home Branch the members are all white. When we tract in Luverne we find some black folks, but very few; Crenshaw is a very white area of Alabama. In the Greenville Branch the actives are all white (except one older lady) but there are a lot of black less actives. The majority of people we tract into in Greenville have been black, mainly because we have been tracting in black areas of Greenville. Sadly though, our tracting efforts and baptismal committments we've made in Greenville with these people haven't come to fruition. So, the ethnicities we interact with really just depend on where we are.

 

We survived "severe weather week". We had the hurricane/tornado warnings which I talked about last week, but that night the remnants of Isaac came back from the north - we got some pretty bad thunderstorms and 7 inches of rain! We had a Flash Flood Warning for the whole area, and there were a lot of roads closed. Within 1 week we had had 1 Tornado warning, 2 tornado watches, 1 severe thunderstorm warning, 2 flash flood warnings, and a flash flood watch.

 

I know I've mentioned the food in the past, but let me just say this - It's dang good! I love the fried okra! I don't know what people were saying that it was the most disgusting vegetable ever. I haven't tried it boiled or pickled though, which I hear is less good. We get to eat with people a lot; members, less actives and investigators. And it's all pretty good food (and lots of it).

 

The last week and a half or so I have been focused more on faith then I have in the past. I've been reading Ether Chapter 12 at the beginning of each daily personal study. There are so many things that can be applied to all of us - Faith really is the empowering principle of gospel lives.

 

The community was hit by tragedy last week. Two older ladies (members) are in the hospital, and one man ( an inactive member) drowned in a pool yesterday and some homes have burned down. I've never experienced a small town before, but its amazing how in a small town within an hour everyone has heard what is happening. People are a little distressed, hopefully this season of bad luck will end.

 

We had a zone meeting last week (and of course, I had to play the piano :/). We found out that our zone, which only had 4 baptisms in July, had 9 baptisms in August! We also heard that when Elder Koelliker came, he felt like our mission needs to attend the temple more often. Previous to now, missionaries generally get to attend the temple once every 7 to 8 months. We now have a temple trip scheduled for next Friday. I'm glad for the opportunity, its been a while since I've been.

 

The missionaries get to watch the CES firesides. Last night's CES fireside with Elder Holland was GREAT!! He is one of my favorite GAs and the message he gave is so applicable to everyone - I encourage y'all to watch it, I believe its on LDS.org.

 

We have no new investigators this last week, but we've recently got some referrals that I feel really good about. As we've gotten closer to Cubert and Becky's baptism weve been seeing them more and more. Hopefully will have more to report next week on that front. I'll send the pictures I've been taking next week as well.

 

Love y'all and miss y'all!

 

Elder Madsen

 

September 3, 2012 Letter

Hello Family and Friends!!

 

Well, I survived Hurricane Isaac! The Friday before the projections showed it heading straight towards central Alabama so it was kind of crazy here for a few days, but by Monday it was pretty obvious that it was gonna hit west of us. We got very little rain (for a hurricane), less than 1.5 inches from it. We had some exciting, suprising weather though! Hurricanes, as you know, often produce spinoff tornadoes (or, as they say in the south, "tornaders"). 4:00 Thursday Morning we were woken up by a suprise Tornado Warning, so we headed for shelter. We later found out that sirens went off in Highland Home, so I think they detected a funnel cloud, but no tornadoes touched down. We had a tornado watch the next day as well.

 

We had a really good lesson with Cubert and Becky this week on the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Everything just seemed to fall into place. Becky has a sewing shop connected to her house that she runs with Wanda her daughter. Wanda is an inactive member who hasn't been to church for years, and is often in the shop when we teach her parents but she never comes and listens. This lesson she invited herself into the lesson, and was a very active participant. We talked about the importance of the sacrament with all of them, and I feel like it really sunk in. It was the perfect lesson for all of them.

 

Virginia is doing better, and she and Gary were both at church Sunday. Virginia actually got up and bore her testimony, it was a touching experience. The branch has been so good to both of them. They both love coming to church, they just need to be baptized.

 

I've not mentioned Sondra in the last few letters because we've not been able to contact her since that first lesson. She is in Mississippi right now helping family members who were hit by the Hurricane. Her husband should come back from Saudi Arabia in the next one or two weeks, and hopefully well be able to teach them and their children together.

 

Because of the holiday weekend, our Saturday in Greenville was really unproductive. We weren't able to get one lesson! Our investigators in Greenville are dropping like flies (pardon the expression). We've had amazing first lessons with people, even sometimes baptismal date commitments, but every one of them seems to fail. Its too bad really. But we'll keep trying there.

 

As missionaries we have the opportunity to teach the gospel essentials class in the Highland Home branch when we are there. Its a neat class and a neat program to help teach the adults who don't know as much, whether it's because they are recent converts or because they were once less actives. Its good to be able to refine my class-teaching skills since missionary lesson settings are very different. I had the opportunity to teach yesterday (this was my second time) about eternal families, and it went really well. I look forward to continuing being able to teach.

 

All to report now (or at least all the time to!)

Elder Madsen

 

August 27, 2012

Hello Family and Friends!

 

So its official - I will not be included in the transfer meeting on Wednesday - Elder K--and I will be staying in Highland Home. I can't believe its the end of my first of only 16 transfers! Time sure flies on the mission. Im really excited that Im staying here.  I've really grown to love everyone here, and I really wanted to stay for Cubert and Becky's baptism. My address will be good at least till Mid-October.

 

I hear that pictures from Elder Koelliker's visit are on the mission blog already - It was a wonderful experience! It was my first-ever zone conference, and I was able to see Elder F-- and Elder H-- from my MTC district. He taught and trained on a lot of different things, and I won't bore you with a whole lot of details. But he promised us if we can all successfully apply the principles we teach in our own lives so we can teach by example, that our baptismswill double, and I know its true. Something he talked about that really struck me is the importance of establishing standard patterns in our lives that enable us to maximize our potential; as people and, particularly, as missionaries. He talked a lot about a "sense of urgency" and getting excited about the work we do. President Holzapfel also trained us. Something I really like what he talked about is from Chapter 1 of Preach My Gospel about being a successful missionary. Often times we as missionaries are tempted to view numbers as an indication of our success, but If we are doing everything we are supposed to and have the spirit guiding our work, we are successful missionaries. There were so many things I learned, but not enough time to share them all here. I'll share some of them in later letters.

 

I'd be lying if I told you I wasn't excited about the Hurricane/Tropical Storm Isaac. A hurricane is something I really want to see while I'm out, and this area is the southernmost area of the mission. Friday it was looking like Isaac was coming straight towards us, so a lot of people in the area were really worried, but as the storm has gotten closer projections have moved it towards Mississippi and maybe even New Orleans. People are still getting ready for it though. Sister M--'s sister from Orange Beach, Alabama is coming up today and staying with the M's for a few days - there have been ordered evacuations on the coast. This area was devastated by Hurricane Opal a long time ago, but that was a Category 4 and it came straight towards us. President Holzapfel has contacted us, is on the watch for potential weather issues, and will direct us via conference call Tuesday Night before the storm hits what we will do. Worst case scenario predicted for this area, according to Sister M--, is 45 mph winds and 8 inches of rain, so we should be fine. We're opening the church for people with mobile homes though, because a lot of the poorer people's homes aren't as stable.

 

Uncle John came a few days ago. Uncle John is Brother M--'s 92-year old uncle who lives in Tennessee, but spends a few months of the year with the M--s. Its amazing how so many of the really older people in their 90s are so full of energy (they've been working their whole lives) and the young people are just lazy (blunt, but true). Uncle John is 92 and he's out riding around the property on the gator doing chores and cleaning things. I hope I will be that way when Im old.

 

The work is going well too! When in Greenville on Saturday and Sunday we were able to recontact some previous investigators we had lost contact with. I think I have mentioned this in a previous letter, but Greenville is a pretty anti-mormon area. Its frustrating because most of the people we teach are very poor and in projects, and they don't stay in one area for long. But we are at least planting seeds, and we have a couple progressing investigators there. There's a man there that the missionaries have been friends with for a while. He's plays the piano and organ for a number of  churches. He took us out to dinner at Cracker Barrel Saturday night and we had some good conversation with him.

 

I'ts a blessing that we aren't being transferred this month, because we probably didn't have enough miles on our car to get us where we needed to be.

 

We had a nice dinner at Cubert and Becky's on Friday, where we left a spiritual thought with them. They are still coming to church and we are moving ahead with them. Yall are probably wondering why its taking a while with them, but remember Cubert and Becky are older, and, from what experience I've had, It often is harder for the older folks to have big changes in their lives, such as baptism. But we are so proud of them and are excited for their planned September 15th baptism.

 

Well, thats all here. Hope to hear from yall! Love ya!

 

Elder Madsen